Life difficulties

Its funny in life that we have to go through something so painfull in order to realise how strong we are.Life is full of suprises and when you least expect it someting happens that thing changes your life forever. As we grow we make choices some we know that are stupid but because we are so caught up in the moment we never think of the consequences of those silly little decisions.But thats life for you, you never know what to expect. Its no use looking and regreting everything because life goes on and you have already made that choice and the damage is already done. Some people say live life in the moment like the is no tomorrow and that seems so easy to say but how do you live life like the is no tomorrow when today is more painfull and seems so impossible to move past.Have you ever noticed that the very same thing that once made you happy and you felt like you were on top of the world can be the very same thing that makes you feel that life is not worth living anymore. Isnt it funny how most of the decisions we regret were made out of love, you were so inlove at that time it felt like the best thing to do. The problem I feel is that when we get into relationships we are so vulnerable that these simple words "I LOVE YOU" make you feel like evrythinmg around you is so perfect that you can never feel hurt or sad again. In most situations love is always the source of our bad decisionsand as much as we asre suppose to learn from the sometimes it just feels like we continue to make those dicisions becauseno matter how bad they are they are making us happy at the and isnt that what we all want to be happy an not have to worry about how long that happiness will last.